Natasha, 30, is a sales rep from Nyack and is married with a three-year-old son.
Our first installment of the sex tell all comes from Blot reader Natasha. Masterbation may be a dirty word, but it roll off her tongue just fine. “I first learnt how to masterbate when I was 16, thanks to my boyfriend at the time who was older and knew what he was doing in the bedroom. Since then, it’s become a part of my daily routine.” She Says: “I do it first thing in the morning and again at night before I go to sleep. Sometimes I don’t even wait until I get home – I’ve been known to pleasure myself while stuck in traffic on the highway, but don’t tell my husband.”
SEX ADDICTION, NO, BUT ORGASMS, YES!
“I always do it really discreetly – no one would have a clue if they saw me doing it. Sometimes I can manage it just by playing out a sex-filled fantasy in my head.” Natasha’s husband Jon, 37, jokes that she must be a sex addict. Her retort “but I’m not – I just love orgasms.” “The only problem with being so good at bringing myself to orgasm so quickly, is that sex can get boring if my husband isn’t doing it quite right.” I’m a very efficient person in general, so sometimes I can’t be bothered with foreplay and sex when I know I can get the job done in under five minutes myself.” She even tried masturbating during work when she was alone at her desk. “Because I use it to help relieve period pain, but it didn’t work this time.”
OPEN LEGS, OPEN MIND, OPEN SCHOOL GATE
Natasha thinks women should be more open about masterbation. “Men aren’t shy about it at all. I don’t discuss my sex life with moms at the school gate, but I do with close girlfriends. For me, masturbating is five minutes of peace and sharpens my brain, so if I’m procrastinating about a presentation or a sales pitch, I’ll just nip off to the toilets to do it – when no one’s about, obviously – and I’ll be a lot clearer afterwards.”